The Marriage Plan

-      Salam, well dis is my first post for my yg entah ke berapa blog pon ak tak hengat! Yela ak nih jenis manusia yg malas nk tulis, biler ada mood baru rase nk tulis, kalau tak mmg haram jadah nk tulis menulis nih haa!

Tajuk kali nih is (the marriage plan) gitu haa… mcm nk kawin esok lusa je.

Ok, actually rase terpanggil nk tulis sbb baru aje balik lepak la kononyer ngan kengkawan n tibe2 muncul la topic camnih, mcm ala-ala ‘biler korang nak kawin?’

Well for me, nak keje dulu, biar rase dulu duit gaji sendiri kan, pastu nk bg parent kite jugak, bagi duit kat parent nih actually not a custom to be followed, it is just biar parent kita rase being appreciated for what they had sacrifice for us before kan. Depend masing2 la kan, but untuk ak that’s it la.

Setiap orang ade plan masing-masing, ade yg nak kawin before abis belajar so that nnti dpt posting tmpat sama, so suweett, ade jugak lepas abis blajar terus kawin, masing-masing ade pendapat sndiri n so does me…

My marriage plans go like this:

1)      Habiskan blajar dulu (setahun lagi weyh,… tazzabar)

2)      Keje dulu setahun biar dapt merase gaji sndiri n buy anything that I     want

3)      Travel dulu dlam mase setahun tuh n pegi la semua tmpat nk pegi or   kawen dulu n travel sama-sama wif hubby. I mean backpacker yg         takde travel guide hensem ganteng bangat tuh n lets guide ourselves   la kat negara org nanti… well I want to have that kind of travel.

4)      So, dsbabkan setahun lepas kawen tuh dimanfaatkan utk travel n         whatsoever, pasal anak tuh… hmmm I want lepas setahun or mybe       dua tahun… why? Becozz…

a.       Biar la kita kenal betul-betul perangai, attitude, karenah hubby   kite dulu, sedeyh die, marah die, romantic die, n everything         bout him la kan

b.      Bincang dulu bout ke mana hala tuju marriage kite nih, dri segi     kewangan, n so onnnnn (bukan dri segi kewangan je ek, bnyak   lagi, bercabang-cabang, but kewangan almost the main point       la)

5)      Agak-agak dah stabil emosi, kewangan bagai baru la sedia nk               tanggung amanah baru which is anak kan, ni tak! Lepas kawen terus     dpat ank, kewangan ntah kemana, baru nak kenal suami camne dah     kelam kabut n hasilnyer kelam kabut jugak.

Its not ak nih jenis yang boikot kawen awal or just kenal gitu- gitu dah nak kawen n plan nk bercinta lepas kawen, but just somehow duduk jap n think for a while,

If kita decide nk kawen after kenal for a few months which we claim kite dah kenal die luar dlam but for real we are not, then terus nk kawen… let’s say frasa ‘bercinta lepas kawin’ ni betul2 menjadi, thank GOD la, but if not which our hubby punyer perngai sngat2 la vise versa ngan kite punyer perangai or die nih jenis laki yg kite benci giler-giler, korang nmpak x risiko die cmner? 

Kalau couple sempat lagi nk clash but kalau dah kawen? Nk cerai ker? Pastu nk kawen lain plak? Well I don’t think so… that’s why for me kite kene kenal betul2 before we decide nk kawen kalau boleh kenal die bertahun2 baru la kawen pon takpe asalkan we know him luar dalam kan….

MY OPINION NOT YOURS, APPRECIATE MINE…