PART 1: Manusia TERSIRAT vs Manusia TERSURAT

TERSIRAT VS TERSURAT

Before u read this, bear in mind that it’s only my opinions and thoughts, kalau rase tak sesuai ngan thoughts yg iolls tulis nih, its okay because setiap orang ade thoughts and opinions masing2.

Manusia nih boleh dibahagi kepada 2 jenis, manusia TERSIRAT & manusia TERSURAT. Well acaner tuh? Manusia TERSIRAT ni sometimes belongs or boleh direlatekan dengan orang tua, mak cik pak cik, atuk nenek n so on la, while manusia TERSURAT nih belongs to teenagers nowadays n d future kids. Tp sometimes, ade jugak teenagers nowadays yg terbabas jd manusia TERSIRAT n its so rare untuk jumpe orng tua terbabas mnjadi manusia TERSURAT.

Ok fine! Fine! ape bende manusia tersirat tersurat nih?

Actually, ape yg aku maksudkan of tersirat ni is suka cakap bertapis-tapis, well for tersurat nih jenis yg tak bertapis.

Meh aku bagi contoh, so that senang nk paham kan!

TERSIRAT:

Opah: Nampak sedap air tembikai yg awak minum tuh… krik krik krik

Translation: opah nk awak tuangkan sikit air tembikai tuh, opah dahaga nk minum air tuh haaa…

Atuk: rase lenguh la kaki nih, letih duk tebas rumput td… krik krik krik

Translation: boleh tak kamu tolok urutkan kaki atuk nih…

Well, better to be said, korang really need to be sensitive of what they said, sbb kadang2 diorng terlupa yg budak zaman skrng nih slow skit bab-bab paham maksud tersirat nih, well cakap jela kalau nk suruh buat cmtuh kan, ape yg susahnyer, hmmm mybe diorang xnak kite rase terbeban kot, donno!

Kalau yg jenis lembam kan mesti die akan jawab camnih, (haah, mmg air tembikai ni sodap pown opah), (tu la! Lain kali atuk x payah la pegi tebas rumput tuh, tengok! Skrang kan dah lenguh sane lenguh sini). Well kalau dah jenis loading tu mmg susah nk bg diorng realise maksud tersirat tuh.

How do I know? Its becoz of my parent la, diorng yg basuh aku so that aku cepat sikit realise ayat-ayat tersirat bermadah pujangga nih ha, selain parent aku pown jenis tersirat jugak, so if im near to the old people, I really need to be aware of this kind of implicit a.k.a TERSIRAT words. So that, takde la dianggap mcm manusia yang jenis susah nk paham orang tua.

Well, kalau bab TERSURAT ni ofkos la teenager nowadays mcm aku nih ha!. Dahaga ar, nak air…, lenguh la kaki nih, tolong urut skit! Ahha, kan senang nak paham tuh, tak payah translate gune abam google ke yahoo ke hape ke, terus paham. Respond yg kite akn dpat pown cepat je, ex: g la amik sndiri air tuh, or haaa nah air. Kalau jenis tersirat nih, respond pown lambat dan kebnyakan respond yg diorang dpat is hambar, tak paham la weyh, nak ape sbnarnyer? Pastu muncul la the krik krik moment.

Ok, panjang-pnjang aku membebel nih actually I want to tell you something about tersirat nih yang kebanyakan orang muda zaman sekarang ni kurang faham. Sebab? Yeah kurang sensitive mungkin. Bnyak sbnarnyer hint yg orang2 tua kasi or keluarkan in hope that kita faham but unfortunately kita tak faham pown n terkadang most of us take it easy or senang kata we take it for granted of the hint the older people give to us.

PART 2 which is sambungan kepada PART 1 nih mengisahkan tentang pengalaman aku sendiri, cerita dan pengalaman my aunts, mom, sibling, friends. So kpada remaja or so-called remaja yg dah kahwen plessss plizzzz pleaseee take note okay, mmg ape yg aku akan bgtau nanti agak pedas, pedih dan menyakitkan hati utk dibaca but thatS the reality n u need to face it.

why i want to expose this opinions n thoughts?

I WRITE THIS N THE NEXT POST JUST TO MAKE U KNOW AND I CAN’T STAND TO HAVE THIS LUAHAN FROM MY AUNT N MOM, SIBLING, FRIENDS RUNNING IN MY MIND ANYMORE.

The Bet Is Still ONNNNNN !

Well, again here I am, writing writing n keep on writing bcoz there’s nothing to do I think. Hmmm, ok guys.

The bet is still on

The bet is still on

The bet is still ONNNNNNNN!

Bet ape? When it comes to me, of coz la bet utk get my ideal weight, well bet nih abng ak sndiri yg jnji utk bet until my weight is 46, n my ideal weight is 41 until 51, n now im 64… pergh jauh perjalanan die, tapi takpe n rase tazzabar sbb the bet is not biase2 je, if ak boleh capai angka 46 kg tuh, I’ll get RM 1k, free-free je dapat, sape xnak kan, giler kau taknak… mmg pluang keemasan ak la nih, bet nih actually dah amik mase almost stahun tp nasib baik abg ak nih ckap takpe still on

Well, u know, in my family aku sorng je yg bambam, yg lain selim melim aje, my sis sedang-sedang la like 50 kg or less than 50, my mom 39 or 40 gitu aje n same goes to my both sis-in-law, even my along pown 60-61 aje, my angoh nih lain citer skit sbb die rugby player, tapi tu pown, die punyer weight just 65-67

n boleh plak angoh aku nih pegi pakai baju blouse ak…, annoyed jugak la sbb die pakai baju tu then longgar siap ade bnyk lg ruang tapi biler aku pakai, takde ruang der, takdeeee waaaaaa, sedeyhhhhhh hermmmm… nanti la, actually ak plan bulan 12 nih nk diet since cuti akhir tahun n nak exercise giler-giler n jage makan betul-betul, hopefully trun berat n saiz badan pown susut la skit kan, ni tak dah mcam telur dah ak tngok.

I really need to be fit, sbb terkadang biler aku rase im to big n besar  like giant, pakai baju ni tak muat, pakai baju tu tak muat, then it will spoil my mood for that day, I mean the whole day dari pagi smpai la malam, dari bukak mate smpai ttup mate balik, bukan mati ek, tido ok, seriously… that’s why im too desperate to be slim n fit. I mean it.

My limit dulu is 75 kg n now 64kg, 41 is my ideal weight, so 23 kg to lose.. pergh sngat….

I’ll try, insyaAllah boleh, takkan la tak boleh, kumpul lemak berkilo-kilo senang je, duit pown bnyak habis kat lemak ni haaa, takkan la nk buang lemak tak boleh pulak…

ITS MY TARGET, MY DREAM, SUPPORT ME…

Pernah Tak?

Ok tajuk kali nih agak pelik skit sbb lepas korang bace ak punyer explanation of ‘pernah tak’ nih, korang mesti fikir yg ak nih mcm jahil giler… well kesahh pulak aku, as long as ak tak pernah lagi la buat cmtuh kan! mintak jauh la dari terbuat bende2 cenggitu, but sometimes biase la kot utk terfikir, if ak buat mcm nih, ok tak? Hahahhaha….. I bet uolls pown pernah jugak fikir camnih kan, alahhh ngaku jela, xpayah nk koya baik sngat, ok fine ayt aku jhat sikit, hmmmmm

Prnah tak korang rase nk buat mcm nih:

1) Freehair

2)Pegi blajar kat negeri or negara orang n wear anything that u want

   (nasib baik ak blajar kat Kelantan n teacher gonna be lagi tuh, kalau tak,          AHAHHAHAHA faham sndiri)

3)Makan sesuka hati, no was-was

4)Colour my hair

5)Tido tepi pantai

Actually, bnyak lagi but better I shut up becoz its too bad, d imagination is too bad to be tell to you, don’t imagine lebih2 smpai ke thap S - - okay! Xde la smpai mcm tu teruknyer, just luar-luar punyer je, mcm wild skit la, x mcm muslim sejati sngat. 

Well Allah knows what best for me as finally ak further study kat klntan. Well u know! Kene jadi baik2, cousin n sedare-mara pown ramai kat sini, so better watch my attitude n character well before they find it out…

Really really actually, im d type of girl yg terkadang suka utk cuba something new, n words yg selalu aku kluarkan is… “WHY NOT?”. Biler ayt nih kluar mulut aku, means, aku x kesah pape dah, kite redah jer, lantak org nk cakap ape pon yg penting why not kite cube buat/ mkan/ main n etc etc, nampak mcm best jer, well tak buat tak tau; why not kite try! Right!

I KNOW MYSELF, U BETTER JAGA TEPI KAIN SENDIRI BEFORE U MENCARUT BOUT MY WISH N IMAGINATION N UNEXPECTED PERANGAI, GEEZ

JUJUR

jujur itu penting,
jujur itu bererti,
jujur itu mahal,

tiada guna baik atau handsome rupa paras kalau tiada kejujuran,
tiada makna manis pertuturanmu ttapi tiada kejujuran dituturkan,
tiada baiknya kau memuji seseorang apabila di belakang kau menghina mengutuk, lebih baik kau hanya berkata-kata secara jujur.

suka cakap suka, (suka buat something or ur  hobby, bukan suka means cinta okay)
tak suka cakap tak suka,
kalau kau jujur, insyaallah orang lain boleh terima,
tak perlu utk kau talam dua muka
kau ckap ko suka buat itu ini, or dr segi pendapat ko n ko share bende nih ngan si A
tapi bila ckap ngan si B, kenyataan ko lain, ape maksud kau?
split personality? semata2 supaya kau diterima semue orang?
suatu hari, biler ade yg realise ape yg kau buat, bukan suka berkawan or bercinta lagi dengan kau, tapi berubah kpd benci, takut untuk berkawan dengan kau, ragu dengan kejujuran kau...

the details are the most important, its not bcoz im a girl, streotype as selalu nk tau segala macam yg laki tu buat behind you, its not like that, its to prevent misunderstanding... contohnyer la kan:

situasi 1:
mina: g mane td?
danny: kuar ngan kawan... end

situasi 2:
mina: g mane td?
danny: kuar ngan kawan, tu haaa! samad, dolah, adam n d rest,

situasi 3:
mina: eh watsap ngan sape tuh?
danny: kawan

situasi 4:
mina: eh watsap ngan sape tuh?
danny: kawan, si samad ni ha! nih td kluar ngan kawan die pastu boleh trtinggal laptop n bla... bla.... bla....

which situations yg u rase ade jujur kat situ? of coz situasi 2 n 4 kan. its not that kite nk tau sngat whether die kluar ngan sape or whatsap sape, just nk tau samaada die nih betul2 jujur or not. kalau bende kecik cenggini pown xleh nk jujur, what do u expect utk hadap bende yg lg besar? konfem2 la si die lg susah utk jujur kan.

biler di alam perkahwinan, ape yg perlu ialah jujur dalam setiap perbuatan, kata-kata mahupun pendapat, jngan sorok walau satu pown ape yg kau rase terhadap pasangan kau, biar ia menyakitkan pada ketika itu, sementara sahaja dan lepas itu segala akan berubah menjadi baik seperti sedia kala, daripada kau pendamkan terus dan suatu hari apabila kau tak tahan lagi dah, dah tentu akan meletup, mase tuh, kau akan nampak ape risiko nyer... susah dah nk diselamatkan, akan terlerai begitu sahaja...

SAYA HARAP AWAK JUJUR DEAR FUTURE

GIVE UP

as a girl, yes n yes i would say, mmg mmg betul pown ape yg dlm box tuh, mmg kalau pompuan tuh dah malas or letih dah nk brharap ngan uolls, cengginih la jdnyer,

my friends sometimes still lagi 'weyh mirah, tuh tuh ur crush' which pointed to the person yg ak dah confess tuh. n tipu la if ak tak tengok kat die kan, tngok tu still lagi tngok or berpaling kat die but deep down, i mean deep deep down tak rase pape dah, rase mcm malas dah nk layan, malas nk amik tau, lantak die lah ngan hidup die, well hidup die bukan hidup aku pown. 

and somehow aku pulak yg trase pelik ngan diri aku sbb tak tau la ape yg menarik sngat smpai ak suka kat die, jauh dari taste aku plak tuh, ntah pape je, nasib baik x smpai ke next level, sbb aku xde la suke giler-giler smpai kalau terserempak tuh, tibe2 jadi kaku membatu je kan, xde la smpai mcm tuh, seriously ak pown xde pape prsaan kat die skrng nih, thanks to my family yg advice kat aku, klau tak aku rase aku still lagi terhegeh-hegeh kot. hmmm, well sometimes hdup sndiri or single ni pown best jugak, xde sape yg nk konkong kau! easy nk kemana pown boleh trus sappp, hilang cenggitu je...

tapi smpai bile nk hdup sndiri kan, mesti nk berteman jugak, tp why not skrng nih u plan betul2 perjalanan hdup u, ape yg u nk buat selain bercinta cintun nih, i mean takkan la nk jd cg je kot, other than cg, ape lagi yg u boleh buat? kemahiran lain? mane tau biler hebat dlm kemahiran lain u boleh open up a company, sometimes day dreaming or angan2 mat jenin boleh jd kenyataan... insyaAllah

MY OPINION JUST LIKE YOURS, GIRLS!

CONFESSION

Confession, d most stupid things that I had done in my life. Really rase bodoh sngat, tp actually ade side bagus die biler u confess ur feeling to someone known as LELAKI!

Ok, ni mmg tajuk berani mati la sbb ak nk cerita kat kawan2 ak pown malu, tp I think better ak tulis jer sbb boleh jd pngajaran utk korang kan, I mean for girls. Ak nih jenis yg susah skit nk suke kat someone but when I love someone, I really mean it. lepas yg dulu punyer hmmm, yela mybe sbb tibe2 die kene pndah johor n jrak jauh, so, paham2 sndiri la ye. It took 7 years until I open my heart to love someone but aku rase prsaan ak skrang dah jd mcm dulu balik, so lepas nih focus keje je la kot… langsung x rase pape dah.

Once upon a time, ak fall in love wif this guy yg nak kata really ikut my taste pown tak, mmg jauh terbabas dr landasan my taste of guy punyer check list! Jauh sngat dr taste ak, boleh kate mmg sngat-sngat-sngat-sngat jauh tertinggal kat belakang. But I think I love him sbb die suke buat lawak selain die nih jenis mudah mesra ngan orang, peramah la orangnyer, tp satu je yg ak x suke is, die suke buat status marah-marah n at d same time gune kate yg agak kesat jugak la, n I seriously hate it!

Tetibe ade hormone berani dlm diri ak nih yg sbbkan ak dengan berani nyer confess my feeling, owh dammit, malu weyh, tp mane tau kot-kot dapat kan, tp actually even ak suke die tp takdelah smpai tahap ak nk couple or nk kawen ngan die, ckup skdar die tau ak suke die, that’s it.

Malu sbb confess tu dah satu hal, tetibe tmbah pulak ngan hal yg unexpected happen plak.

Nak dijadikan cerita utk buat ak malu bertingkat-tingkat is when I forgot to uninstall messenger dlam my mum’s phone which ak install n sign in gune my fb account.. and TADAAAA! my sis read all of d conversation n told my mom n sibling. Nice! Really nice.

I thought diorng akn menganjing ak kan but something amazing happen as they give me a lot of good advice n well I’ve list some of it below >>>

My mom, sis, brothers punyer advices: (for girls only)

1)      Tlong jngan confess kat laki sbb u will look sngat desperate,                 terhegeh-hegeh n murah, I mean sngat murah, senang sngat nk           dapat.

2)      If u dapat laki tu pown, senang je laki tu nk cari lain.. well becoz he     does not really love u, its becoz mybe sbb xnak jatuhkan maruah u,     so he accept je la kan (risiko nk kene tinggal tu tinggi).

3)      Kalau dpat pown, that girl really really terpaksa berusaha lebih untuk   pastikan laki tuh still syang uolls, n u know, laki ada ego, ego yg           tinggi I mean, so letih la kalau u are d one yg duk berusaha sorang2..

4)      Better tggu je la laki confess, nih mmg nasihat abang2 aku la yg           boleh di consider sbgai lelaki sejati or tulen.

My sis punyer advice: 

if u want to know whether this man is sngat suitable for u or boleh kate boleh jadi suami kita la kan, u will feel sngat selesa ngan die, she means u will feel warm and bukannyer always rase nervous or tergedik-gedik when u wif him, got it? N boleh plak tetibe ak trjumpe this picture, duk diam-diam n fahamkan diri uolls

As for me, that confession is my FIRST N LAST confession, after this even aku suke mcm mane pown kat someone, I think better to lose him rather than confessing my feeling. Fullstop.

MY OPINION, GO FIND YOURS. 

The Marriage Plan

-      Salam, well dis is my first post for my yg entah ke berapa blog pon ak tak hengat! Yela ak nih jenis manusia yg malas nk tulis, biler ada mood baru rase nk tulis, kalau tak mmg haram jadah nk tulis menulis nih haa!

Tajuk kali nih is (the marriage plan) gitu haa… mcm nk kawin esok lusa je.

Ok, actually rase terpanggil nk tulis sbb baru aje balik lepak la kononyer ngan kengkawan n tibe2 muncul la topic camnih, mcm ala-ala ‘biler korang nak kawin?’

Well for me, nak keje dulu, biar rase dulu duit gaji sendiri kan, pastu nk bg parent kite jugak, bagi duit kat parent nih actually not a custom to be followed, it is just biar parent kita rase being appreciated for what they had sacrifice for us before kan. Depend masing2 la kan, but untuk ak that’s it la.

Setiap orang ade plan masing-masing, ade yg nak kawin before abis belajar so that nnti dpt posting tmpat sama, so suweett, ade jugak lepas abis blajar terus kawin, masing-masing ade pendapat sndiri n so does me…

My marriage plans go like this:

1)      Habiskan blajar dulu (setahun lagi weyh,… tazzabar)

2)      Keje dulu setahun biar dapt merase gaji sndiri n buy anything that I     want

3)      Travel dulu dlam mase setahun tuh n pegi la semua tmpat nk pegi or   kawen dulu n travel sama-sama wif hubby. I mean backpacker yg         takde travel guide hensem ganteng bangat tuh n lets guide ourselves   la kat negara org nanti… well I want to have that kind of travel.

4)      So, dsbabkan setahun lepas kawen tuh dimanfaatkan utk travel n         whatsoever, pasal anak tuh… hmmm I want lepas setahun or mybe       dua tahun… why? Becozz…

a.       Biar la kita kenal betul-betul perangai, attitude, karenah hubby   kite dulu, sedeyh die, marah die, romantic die, n everything         bout him la kan

b.      Bincang dulu bout ke mana hala tuju marriage kite nih, dri segi     kewangan, n so onnnnn (bukan dri segi kewangan je ek, bnyak   lagi, bercabang-cabang, but kewangan almost the main point       la)

5)      Agak-agak dah stabil emosi, kewangan bagai baru la sedia nk               tanggung amanah baru which is anak kan, ni tak! Lepas kawen terus     dpat ank, kewangan ntah kemana, baru nak kenal suami camne dah     kelam kabut n hasilnyer kelam kabut jugak.

Its not ak nih jenis yang boikot kawen awal or just kenal gitu- gitu dah nak kawen n plan nk bercinta lepas kawen, but just somehow duduk jap n think for a while,

If kita decide nk kawen after kenal for a few months which we claim kite dah kenal die luar dlam but for real we are not, then terus nk kawen… let’s say frasa ‘bercinta lepas kawin’ ni betul2 menjadi, thank GOD la, but if not which our hubby punyer perngai sngat2 la vise versa ngan kite punyer perangai or die nih jenis laki yg kite benci giler-giler, korang nmpak x risiko die cmner? 

Kalau couple sempat lagi nk clash but kalau dah kawen? Nk cerai ker? Pastu nk kawen lain plak? Well I don’t think so… that’s why for me kite kene kenal betul2 before we decide nk kawen kalau boleh kenal die bertahun2 baru la kawen pon takpe asalkan we know him luar dalam kan….

MY OPINION NOT YOURS, APPRECIATE MINE…